How much we talk about another is not like reading good books, it reveals how deluded we are!
Don’t make a mistake of making conclusive remark over someone, even if you think you saw or heard from the horses’ mouth? A wise hermit will only talk little about others and most about nothing, but we do otherwise. Which is you?
Like a proven experiment, everything and anyone you remark about must have multiple evidences, else it may only be your opinion. We are too happy to say”I was told” and “I heard” and then believe it must be as you heard it.
How good is your history to rail about other’s failure? Have you not stolen anything in your life, have you not failed in your life, in romance, marriage and wok? Have you not betrayed someone who loved you? Have you not been corruptive and selfish in your intent and action in the past? Have you not slept when someone you never married, or someone married?
When you say anything about others, would you tell it if that person confronted you? Or, are your bowing and praising in front and saying inconclusive remarks behind their back? Would you like to hear the same you say about other about you?
“Impact is not Intention” the SIY training programme highlights how what we hear or feel about what others say and do to us may have different intention than we imagined. We need to compose ourselves to reflect if we would love to hear the same about ourselves.
“She said Sonam is in relationship with Wangpo?” How do we fuel even more by adding opinion or blaming either of the two people without realizing, we cannot prove anything much. Even if we prove, what value does it add to our life?
“He said he is not going to participate in the gathering.” And you speak with confidence as if you know why, and you will only assume ‘He is egoistic.’ Can this be the truth why he could it attend. What if his reason underlies a serious incident at his home?
May of our talks are about other people, and that too assumptions, suspicions, inconclusive opinions and beliefs. If gathering can bring about conversation that deliberates ideas, it would be a fruitful awakening over a glass of beer.
I hear about what people tell about what I am and what I do. People are diseased aggravatingly at making inconclusive talks, even when they hear about one thing that get them interested as if they have no history of their own. Neither my life nor yours is a fictional movie to gossip about. Our lives have meaning, and each life is a conundrum of enigma to themselves. Any ‘this and that’ we conclude and rejoice about others is our own fractured perceptions. What we talk about tells what we are to the very being.
Traditional axiom say that we must not caw like a crow, knowing we know nothing much and can do nothing much, lest we get stoned where it hurts most.
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