Tallest towers and the longest bridges, toughest adventures and the priceless victories, greatest battles and the memorable histories, were not born with ease and comfort. Every accomplishments arise from the frictions, like the diamond polished from its rawness. Blood will be bled, ache will be felt, hope may be lost, but it will only be part of the journey we make. We may need little more courage, little more resilience to overcome defeating circumstances in our life.
Marriage is an adventure of filled with mystery, that challenges even the strongest promises and greatest hopes with which we began. No marriage has known romance to its end. Ability to respond to needs of each other, understanding the psyche of each other and celebrating every possible day together brings accomplishment for a marriage.
It's even more miraculous that two different person by all history, morality, personality traits, education and experience can survive together for decades of living harmoniously, even if friction do incur sometimes. That is marriage, the marriage of many differences to seek wellbeing and happiness in living together.
Many marriages begin with a climax of romance, with beautiful experiences of love, affection and understanding. The climax often deteriorates year after year leading to building walls of doubts and distance, of chaos and disharmony at home and without any possibility for a true smile and laughter to live with. Beautiful marriage is not built on wealth and luxury alone. The essence of a great marriage is nurtured by overcoming differences, by understanding each other, by seeking ways to sacrifice for wellbeing of each other and family.
A good marriages deepen sense of security, it helps to feel belonged to, gives meaning to have a home and children, to have a reliable friend when sick and to rejoice romance of a family life. But these does not come with ease and without sacrifices from both sides.
What began with a beautiful experience of falling love with a stranger, where everything about the other is beautiful changes after marriage, often relationship becoming sour. The sourness hurts us, giving us opportunities to be patient, opportunities to understand the other, opportunities to learn lessons to grow strong. But it also must soon pass and leaving us injured. The injury is what binds the differences together if injuries can be overcome.
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